Retro phone accessories reveal digital divide in 'untethering' movement

Women and vulnerable populations may experience reduced safety if pressured to disconnect from smartphones used as digital safety nets for personal protection.
Who gets to untether, and under what conditions?
The trend toward smartphone-free spaces masks a critical gap: many women depend on devices for personal safety.
Mark

Why do you think the retro handset is selling now, specifically? It's not like people suddenly forgot how to use their phones.

Mimi

Right. It's not about functionality. It's about permission. The handset gives people a physical way to say "I'm choosing distance" in a culture that's designed the opposite. It's a gesture.

Mark

And the safety apps you mentioned—Life360, location sharing—those are also about tethering, but in a different way.

Mimi

Exactly. One tether is about surveillance of yourself by yourself. The other is about being reachable, being findable by people you trust. They feel opposite, but they're both about connection.

Mark

So when a school bans phones, or a concert locks them away, who's actually affected most?

Mimi

The people who don't have the luxury of assuming they're safe. A woman walking home at night isn't thinking about digital wellness. She's thinking about whether someone knows where she is.

Mark

That's the equity gap you keep circling back to.

Mimi

Yes. The untethering movement assumes everyone has the same relationship to their device. But safety and privilege shape that relationship in ways the trend completely overlooks.

Mark

What would a more honest conversation about this look like?

Mimi

One that asks: who benefits from disconnecting, and who loses something real if they do? That's the question the retro accessories don't answer.

  • A $20 retro handset accessory is selling briskly across Australia, the visible tip of a deeper cultural movement away from always-on smartphone intimacy.
  • Schools are banning devices, events are locking them in pouches, and companies are marketing wall-mounted docks as tools for nervous system resets — the infrastructure of disconnection is being built in earnest.
  • Researchers who studied pandemic media habits found the hand-device bond could loosen under the right conditions, and now those conditions are being deliberately engineered into everyday life.
  • But the push to untether carries a hidden cost: women routinely use smartphones as personalised digital safety nets — sharing locations, sending arrival texts, running safety apps — making disconnection not a relief but a risk.
  • The trend is landing on a fault line: for some, the phone is a burden to escape; for others, it is a lifeline, and the pressure to put it down is not equally safe to obey.

A small plastic handset coiled like a relic from another era is quietly outselling its own nostalgia in Australian stores, signalling something more considered than whimsy: a cultural turning away from the intimate grip smartphones have held over daily life for two decades. The desire to loosen that tether is real, and increasingly designed into schools, concert halls, and living rooms. Yet beneath the trend lies an uneven terrain — for many women and vulnerable people, the smartphone is not a distraction to escape but a safety net they cannot put down. The freedom to disconnect, it turns out, is itself a form of privilege.

A coiled plastic handset that plugs into a smartphone's charging port — making it look like something from a 1980s kitchen — is selling steadily in Australian online stores. It reads as nostalgia, but it points to something more deliberate: after two decades of drawing ever closer to our devices, people are beginning to pull back.

The intimacy was always engineered. Since 2007, smartphones have been calibrated for the human hand — touchscreens responsive to bare skin, weights balanced for a resting palm. Researchers asking Australian users to describe their devices have watched people close their eyes and hold them to their chests. "It's my world," one participant said. But during pandemic lockdowns, something shifted. With laptops dominating the day, some people found their phones drifting to silent, left in other rooms. The tether, it turned out, could loosen.

Now that loosening is being designed into the world. Lockable pouches appear at concerts and events. Schools across Australia and beyond are banning classroom phones. In Amsterdam, "reading raves" draw crowds who arrive with devices switched off. A company called Coilie sells a wall-mounted dock that fixes a smartphone to one spot in the home, its marketing promising "a home for your phone, a rest for your mind, and a reset for your nervous system."

But the ability to untether is not evenly shared. Research into how Australian women navigate public space at night reveals smartphones functioning as personalised digital safety nets — arrival texts, shared locations on Snap Map, dedicated safety apps like Life360. For these users, the device is not a distraction to manage but a connection they cannot responsibly sever.

The retro accessories and smartphone-free spaces reflect a genuine hunger for distance from constant connectivity. But they also surface a quieter question: who actually gets to disconnect, and under what conditions? The answer traces a divide that runs along lines of vulnerability. For some, putting the phone down is a luxury. For others, it is a risk they cannot afford to take.

A twenty-dollar gadget is selling briskly in Australian online stores these days. It's a coiled handset that plugs into a smartphone's charging port, transforming the sleek device into something that looks like it belongs in a 1980s kitchen—a chunky plastic receiver you hold to your ear, cord trailing, the way phones worked before they fit in a pocket. It seems like nostalgia, a quirky joke about the way we used to live. But the trend points to something more deliberate happening beneath the surface: after decades of drawing closer to our devices, more people are now trying to step back.

The shift didn't happen overnight. Twenty years ago, a Japanese cultural anthropologist named Mizuko Ito described the mobile phone as a "snug and intimate technosocial tethering"—constant, lightweight, enabling both connection and the freedom to move. Smartphones accelerated this intimacy. Since 2007, they've been engineered specifically for the human hand: touchscreens that respond to bare skin, weights and sizes calibrated to rest in a palm without strain, interfaces built for effortless scrolling and swiping. When I've asked Australian smartphone users in my research to hold their device and describe what it means to them, some rotate it slowly in their hands. Some close their eyes and hold it to their chest. "I'd be lost without it," one person told me. "It's my world," said another.

But something shifted during the pandemic lockdowns. In research I published with Ingrid Richardson on how people's media habits changed when confined to their homes, several participants described their smartphones becoming less appealing once laptops and desktops took over their lives. "I spend all day on my laptop, the last thing I want to do is look at a tiny mobile phone screen," one person said. Another reported her phone sitting on silent most of the time: "Often it's not even in the same room as me anymore." The hand-device tether could loosen, it turned out, depending on circumstances.

What's different now is that the loosening is becoming deliberate, collective, and designed into the world around us. Lockable pouches are standard at smartphone-free concerts and events. Schools across Australia and globally are banning phones from classrooms. In Amsterdam, a group called The Offline Club runs "reading raves" where attendees arrive with devices switched off and tucked away for the entire session. A company called Coilie sells a wall-mounted dock with a coiled cord that tethers a smartphone to a fixed spot in the home, mimicking the old landline. The marketing promise is direct: "give your phone a home, your mind a rest, and your nervous system a reset." One woman in my research told me she used to lock her smartphone in a drawer at work because she couldn't stop playing Candy Crush during her shift. She needed physical distance between herself and her device. Coilie is selling that distance through retro design.

But the ability to untether is not equally distributed. Much of my research has examined how Australian women use smartphones to maintain connection with trusted contacts when outside the home, especially at night. What emerged was a pattern of smartphones functioning as personalized "digital safety nets." This looks like routine practices: "text me when you arrive home," following each other's location on Snapchat's Snap Map, using apps like Life360 designed specifically for safety. For many of the people I've spoken with over the past decade, the smartphone provides a tether to family, partners, and friends that feels essential, not optional.

Asking someone to switch off their device, lock it away, or leave it in another room assumes a level of safety that not everybody can take for granted. The retro accessories and smartphone-free events are real, and the desire for distance from constant connectivity is genuine. But they raise a question that goes deeper than whether we should untether: who gets to, and under what conditions? The answer reveals a digital divide that runs along lines of vulnerability and trust. For some, the smartphone is a burden to escape. For others, it's a lifeline they cannot afford to release.

I'd be lost without it. It's my world.
— Australian smartphone users in research interviews
I spend all day on my laptop, the last thing I want to do is look at a tiny mobile phone screen.
— Research participant describing pandemic-era device use
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