The die was cast. It pushed him into a headspace where he didn't feel the same as anybody else.
Between 2020 and 2025, English schools suspended more than 55,000 pupils for racist abuse alone — a 68% surge in prejudice-driven exclusions that reveals not simply a worsening of children's behavior, but the slow dismantling of the systems designed to cultivate understanding before harm takes root. Funding cuts to anti-bullying charities, the absence of mandatory incident recording, and the seepage of wider societal divisions into classrooms have left schools reaching for punishment where prevention once stood. Behind the statistics are lives irrevocably altered — young people driven to suicidal despair by the sustained message that who they are is wrong — and a growing chorus of educators, advocates, and bereaved parents insisting that a society cannot discipline its way out of a crisis it has defunded its way into.
- Suspensions for racist, homophobic, transphobic, and disablist abuse have surged 68% in under four years, signaling a crisis that reactive punishment alone cannot contain.
- A mother whose autistic son died by suicide traces the damage back to years of disablist bullying — a reminder that the human cost of these numbers does not end at the school gate.
- Anti-bullying charities that once trained tens of thousands of teachers annually now reach only a fraction, after government funding cuts and lost local authority contracts gutted prevention infrastructure.
- England has no legal requirement for schools to record bullying incidents, meaning the only data available comes from suspensions — a measure of failure, not foresight.
- Outreach workers and peer ambassadors who visit schools report that direct, human storytelling — not punishment — is what shifts understanding, and that these interventions are neither costly nor complicated.
- Experts are calling for a national anti-bullying strategy, mandatory recording, and restored outreach funding, warning that without systemic change, the cycle of harm and exclusion will only deepen.
Between 2020 and 2025, English schools suspended more than 55,000 pupils for racist abuse, with homophobic and transphobic incidents triggering over 13,000 further suspensions and disablist abuse accounting for roughly 1,600 more. The overall surge — 68% in fewer than four years — is not simply a story of worsening behavior. It is a story of what happens when the infrastructure of prevention is quietly dismantled.
Kirsten Coutts understands this in the most devastating way. Her son Sam was 18 when he died by suicide earlier this year. The bullying that shaped his final years had happened long before — disablist abuse that told him, relentlessly, that nothing about him was acceptable. Days before his death, he asked his mother how it would feel if someone told her that everything about her was wrong. Coutts now advocates for schools and parents to work together, to take prevention seriously. "Something has to change," she said.
The machinery to prevent prejudicial abuse has been systematically starved of resources. The Anti-Bullying Alliance once reached tens of thousands of teachers annually; after funding cuts forced it to introduce charges, it now reaches a fraction of that number. Show Racism the Red Card has faced similar losses. A survey of 15 school outreach charities found that 12 had seen cuts to central government grants since 2019. The data that does exist on bullying comes from suspension records — a reactive measure, not a preventive one — because England has no legal requirement for schools to record bullying incidents at all.
Education leaders are clear that schools cannot solve these problems alone. "It feels as though we are living in an increasingly abrasive era," said Pepe Di'lasio of the Association of School and College Leaders, pointing to social media harms, divisive politics, and the absence of mandatory anti-bullying training as forces that classrooms absorb but cannot neutralize in isolation.
Yet those doing prevention work speak to its power. Cameron Wright, 21, was left suicidal by slurs and threats throughout school. Now, as an LGBTQ+ ambassador, Wright returns to schools to say: my life is extraordinary now. Billy Welch, a Gypsy leader who visits schools to share his community's culture and history, says the greatest beneficiaries are often the teachers themselves, who leave with a different understanding. These are not expensive interventions. They work because they address the root — not behavior, but the absence of understanding.
The government has announced support for schools facing the most acute behavioral challenges, but experts are calling for something more structural: a national anti-bullying strategy, mandatory incident recording, and restored funding to the outreach services that have been cut away. The choice, as the data makes plain, is between prevention and punishment — and the consequences of choosing punishment by default are already being counted.
Between 2020 and 2025, English schools suspended more than 55,000 pupils for racist abuse. In the same period, homophobic or transphobic incidents triggered suspensions over 13,000 times, and disablist abuse accounted for roughly 1,600 more. The raw numbers tell one story. The trajectory tells another: a 68% surge in suspensions tied to prejudicial abuse in fewer than four years, a climb that education specialists and charities attribute not to worse behavior alone, but to a systematic hollowing out of the resources meant to prevent it.
Kirsten Coutts knows the weight of these numbers in a way statistics cannot capture. Her son Sam was 18 when he died by suicide in a toilet at Darlington's Queen Elizabeth Sixth Form College earlier this year. He was not bullied there, but the damage had been done years before—by disablist abuse he endured as a schoolboy, the kind of relentless messaging that told him nothing about him was acceptable. "The die was cast," Coutts said. "It pushed him into a headspace where he didn't feel the same as anybody else." A few days before his death, Sam opened up about the bullying he had suffered. He asked his mother how she would feel if someone told her that everything about her was wrong, that nothing about her was right. Coutts now advocates for schools and parents to work together, to monitor social media access, to do the hard work of prevention. "Something has to change," she said.
The Department for Education called the figures shocking and said discrimination has no place in schools. But the machinery to prevent it has been systematically starved. Martha Boateng, director of the Anti-Bullying Alliance, explained that government funding cuts and local authority contract losses have created what amounts to a real reduction in schools' capacity to undertake anti-bullying training. The alliance once reached tens of thousands of teachers annually with its resources. Now, after introducing charges to cover costs, it reaches a fraction of that number. Show Racism the Red Card, which delivers anti-racism workshops in schools, has faced similar cuts. James Kingett from the charity noted that local authorities, themselves squeezed by austerity, have repurposed funding away from prevention work. The Local Government Information Unit found that 12 of 15 school outreach charities examined had faced cuts in central government grants and contracts since 2019. As one analyst put it, councils' hands are tied.
Education specialists point to multiple currents flowing together: funding erosion, social media harms, divisive politics, the absence of mandatory teacher training in anti-bullying work, and a lack of legal requirement for schools to even record bullying incidents. Despite recommendations from Britain's equality regulator, the Equality and Human Rights Commission, recording bullying is not mandatory in England. The data that does exist comes from suspension records—a reactive measure, not a preventive one. Pepe Di'lasio, General Secretary of the Association of School and College Leaders, said schools use exclusions only as a last resort but will not tolerate discriminatory behavior. "The problems we are seeing are huge societal issues which cannot be solved solely in the classroom," he said. "It feels as though we are living in an increasingly abrasive era." Teaching union NASUWT has received frequent reports of both teachers and pupils receiving prejudicial abuse. General secretary Matt Wrack warned against demonizing young people, noting that wider societal divisions inevitably reflect in schools.
Yet the outreach workers who do this prevention work speak to its power. Cameron Wright, 21, an ambassador with LGBTQ+ charity JustLikeUs, was left suicidal after being targeted with slurs and threats throughout school. Now Wright returns to schools to share their experience, to say: I know what it was like, but my life is amazing now. "School was consistently difficult and it was difficult because I was gay," Wright said. "Teachers couldn't get a handle on what was happening and school went from a safe place to a place I felt really excluded from." Gypsy leader Billy Welch, who visits schools to talk about his community's culture and history, said the work has made a huge difference in Darlington. "The children love it but the ones who get the most out of it are the teachers, who go back with a different understanding and different approach." These are not expensive interventions. They are education, not punishment. They work because they address the root—the lack of understanding, the absence of exposure to difference.
The government has announced support for schools with the biggest behavior challenges, including free breakfast clubs, improved teacher training, and clearer guidance around suspensions. But education experts are calling for something more systematic: a national anti-bullying strategy, mandatory recording of bullying incidents, and restored funding to the outreach services that have been cut. The choice, as it stands, is between prevention and punishment. The data shows what happens when prevention funding disappears.
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The problems we are seeing are huge societal issues which cannot be solved solely in the classroom. It feels as though we are living in an increasingly abrasive era.— Pepe Di'lasio, General Secretary of the Association of School and College Leaders
School was consistently difficult and it was difficult because I was gay. Teachers couldn't get a handle on what was happening and school went from a safe place to a place I felt really excluded from.— Cameron Wright, LGBTQ+ ambassador with JustLikeUs
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Why does the number of suspensions keep climbing if schools are taking the problem seriously?
Because suspensions are what happens after the fact. They're a response, not a prevention. When you cut funding to the charities and programs that teach kids and teachers how to recognize and interrupt bullying before it escalates, you're left with only one tool: removing the student.
But surely schools have their own anti-bullying programs?
They're required to have policies, yes. But policies on paper don't train a teacher to recognize homophobic slurs, or help a classroom understand why a Gypsy student's family history matters. That takes ongoing work, and that work costs money—money that's been cut.
So this is really a funding story, not a behavior story?
It's both. The behavior reflects what's happening in society—the divisions, the social media amplification. But schools used to have resources to counteract that. Now they don't. So the behavior goes unchecked until it becomes serious enough to suspend someone.
What would actually work?
The people doing outreach—the LGBTQ+ ambassadors, the Gypsy community leaders—they show that exposure and education change minds. A teacher who learns about Gypsy culture doesn't just teach differently; they see their students differently. That's prevention.
Why isn't the government funding that?
Austerity. Local councils have had their budgets cut so severely that they can't fund prevention work. Schools are stretched. The charities that used to do this work have had to start charging, which means fewer schools can access them. It's a cascade of cuts.
And the families caught in this—what do they need?
What Kirsten Coutts is saying: schools and parents working together, teachers with support and training, and a culture that doesn't just punish difference but helps young people understand it. Her son didn't need suspension. He needed someone to interrupt the message that he was fundamentally wrong.