I double-socked it and they saw me through
On the shoulder of a motorway between Sydney and Newcastle, a retired footballer named Rhali Dobson removed her ruined shoes and kept walking — more than one hundred kilometres still ahead of her, covered only in socks and the weight of a diagnosis her partner received six years ago. The walk, organised by the Mark Hughes Foundation, was one of twenty-six people moving together through grief, solidarity, and physical endurance toward a shared purpose: to fund research into a disease that claims more Australian lives under forty than any other cancer. In the oldest human tradition, the body was offered as testimony to what the heart cannot say in words alone.
- Blisters forced Dobson to abandon her shoes barely a third into the 150km trek, leaving over 100km to be walked in nothing but socks — a decision that transformed a fundraiser into an act of raw endurance.
- Brain cancer is Australia's leading cancer killer of people under 40, and nearly every member of the 26-person team carried a personal connection to the disease, making each kilometre feel like more than a physical challenge.
- Dobson's partner Matt Stonham collapsed on a football field with a seizure in 2015 and was diagnosed with brain cancer, anchoring her motivation in something far more intimate than charity.
- As McDonald Jones Stadium finally came into view after three and a half days, exhaustion gave way to euphoria — the group surged forward on what Dobson called their 'one-millionth second wind.'
- The walk raised over $100,000 toward establishing Newcastle as a world-class brain cancer research centre, and within 72 hours Dobson was back on the training pitch, playing a full 90 minutes.
Rhali Dobson was barely a third of the way through a 150km charity walk from Sydney to Newcastle when her feet gave out. Blisters had made her shoes unwearable. She pulled them off, doubled up her socks, and kept moving — more than one hundred kilometres still ahead of her, covered entirely on foot without shoes.
The walk was organised by the Mark Hughes Foundation to raise money for brain cancer research, with a 26-person team that included former NRL players Aaron Gorrell and Bill Peden. For Dobson, the cause was not abstract. In 2015, her partner Matt Stonham collapsed during a football match with a seizure and was subsequently diagnosed with brain cancer. That diagnosis had never left her. "Everyone in the group had been touched in some form by brain cancer," she said. Brain cancer kills more Australians under forty than any other cancer, and the team's ambition was to help make Newcastle a world-class centre for research into the disease.
Walking through the pain of those final kilometres, Dobson found the kind of perspective that only sustained suffering can produce. The hurt was real, but it was temporary — it had a finish line. She thought of those living with brain cancer, enduring something far worse with no such certainty. That thought, she said, made each step easier to take.
The team arrived at McDonald Jones Stadium after three and a half days. As the stadium came into sight, the group found a final reserve of energy none of them knew remained. Dobson crossed the finish line in her socks, her mother and aunty beside her, having walked over one hundred kilometres without shoes.
Within 72 hours she was back on the training pitch. Her legs, against all expectation, felt strong. She played a full ninety minutes. The walk raised more than $100,000 — a number that mattered, though perhaps less than what the journey itself had proven: that when the reason is real enough, the body will find a way to keep going.
Rhali Dobson sat on the shoulder of the M1 Pacific Motorway, her feet shredded from fifty kilometres of walking in a single day. The blisters had won. She pulled off her shoes, grabbed two fresh pairs of socks from her pack, and kept moving. Over one hundred kilometres still lay ahead of her, and she would cover every one of them in nothing but cotton and determination.
The retired W-League player was three days into a trek from NRL Headquarters in Sydney to McDonald Jones Stadium in Newcastle, part of a twenty-six-person team assembled to raise money for the Mark Hughes Foundation. The group included former NRL stars Aaron Gorrell and Bill Peden. By the time Dobson ditched her shoes barely a third of the way through, the walk had already begun to feel like something larger than a fundraising event—it had become a test of what the body and mind could endure when the reason mattered enough.
The reason mattered because brain cancer had entered Dobson's life in 2015 when her partner, Matt Stonham, collapsed on a football field with a seizure. The diagnosis that followed reshaped everything. "Everyone in the group had been touched in some form by brain cancer or cancer in general," Dobson said later. The walk was not abstract charity work. It was personal, and it was collective. Brain cancer kills more Australians under forty than any other cancer. The team's goal was to raise funds for research and to establish Newcastle as a world-class brain cancer centre.
Walking in socks through the final stretch, Dobson's mind did what minds do under sustained physical stress: it found perspective. Each step hurt, but the hurt was temporary, manageable, finite. She thought of people living with brain cancer, enduring something far worse with no finish line in sight. "When you're focusing on putting one foot in front of the other all you can think of is 'yes, I'm in pain but this is nothing compared to what people with brain cancer are enduring every day,'" she reflected.
The team reached McDonald Jones Stadium on June 19 after three and a half days of walking. Dobson's mother and aunty had walked alongside her. As the stadium came into view, something shifted in the group. "Everyone got their one-millionth second wind," Dobson said. "Everyone perked up and we were all smiles, all laughs and the jokes were free-flowing. By that point I could have run there." She finished in her socks, having walked over one hundred kilometres without shoes.
What happened next was almost as remarkable as the walk itself. Within seventy-two hours, Dobson was back on the training pitch in Newcastle with her club. She started with a warm-up, testing her legs, but they felt strong enough. She played a full ninety minutes on the Friday with no problems. The body, it turned out, had more to give.
The walk raised more than one hundred thousand dollars. For Dobson, the achievement meant something beyond the number. It was a chance to reflect on what mattered, to amplify awareness about a disease that kills too many people too young, and to demonstrate that when you have someone by your side—as she had Matt—you can walk through almost anything. Even one hundred kilometres in socks.
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When you're focusing on putting one foot in front of the other all you can think of is 'yes, I'm in pain but this is nothing compared to what people with brain cancer are enduring every day'— Rhali Dobson
Brain cancer is the leading cause of death in Australia for under-40s in terms of cancer— Rhali Dobson
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Why did you keep going after the shoes came off? Most people would have stopped.
Because stopping wasn't an option. Not for this. Matt was there with me the whole way, and I kept thinking about what he's been through. My blisters weren't the real problem.
But physically—your feet must have been destroyed. How did you even walk?
Double socks. It sounds simple, but it worked. The pain was real, but it became background noise. When you're thinking about brain cancer, about people fighting for their lives, your own discomfort shrinks.
You played a full match three days later. How is that even possible?
Honestly, I was surprised too. I thought I'd just do the warm-up and see what happened. But the legs felt good. Sometimes the mind pushes the body further than you think it can go.
What did you want people to understand about brain cancer from this walk?
That it's the leading cancer killer for people under forty in Australia. That it's not distant or abstract—it touches real families, real lives. And that we need a world-class research centre in Newcastle to fight it.
Did the walk change how you see your own pain?
Completely. It put everything in perspective. Yes, I was hurting. But that hurt had an end date. For people with brain cancer, the fight is ongoing. That's what kept me moving.