The hardest day of our lives, and we didn't understand why
Muniain and Eguaras have been inseparable since age four, living near each other and joining Athletic's youth academy together at age 12. Both players shared trauma as teenagers when teammate Iñaki Gallastegi died in an accident, bonding them through grief during their formative years.
- Muniain and Eguaras have been friends since age four, living in the same Pamplona neighborhood
- Both joined Athletic Bilbao's academy at age twelve, living 160 kilometers from home
- Teammate Iñaki Gallastegi died in an accident when they were thirteen years old
- Eguaras spent nine seasons in Spain's second division before Almería's promotion to La Liga
- This was their first La Liga matchup, played at San Mamés on September 30, 2022
Iker Muniain and Iñigo Eguaras, lifelong friends who grew up together in Pamplona and trained at Athletic Bilbao's academy, will face each other for the first time in La Liga this Friday as rivals.
Iker Muniain and Iñigo Eguaras grew up in the same Pamplona neighborhood, separated by nothing more than a traffic circle. They met at four years old and played together on the same youth team, the Txantrea, before being summoned to Athletic Bilbao's academy at twelve. The club president called them into his office with news that would reshape their childhoods: they were moving to Bilbao, 160 kilometers away, to live in a cold dormitory housed in an old seminary. It was, as Eguaras would later describe it, a mixture of joy and sorrow.
At thirteen, both boys experienced something that bound them in ways football never could. A teammate, Iñaki Gallastegi, died in an accident. They were young enough not to fully understand what had happened, but old enough to feel its weight completely. Years later, Eguaras would recall the moment with precision: the embrace, the tears, the incomprehension of why this had happened to someone they trained with every day, someone who shared their dormitory, their meals, their dreams. "It was very hard," he said. "The hardest day of our lives." Away from family, surrounded by other displaced teenagers, they had only each other and the staff at the residence to help them process the loss. The experience forced them to grow up faster than they should have, to see life as something fragile and uncertain.
They remained close through everything that followed. Muniain stayed at Athletic, beginning his first-team career at sixteen and building a career that would make him one of the club's most recognizable players. Eguaras took a different path. After three years in Athletic's reserve team, he never received the call to the senior squad. He spent nine seasons in Spain's second division, moving between Sabadell, Mirandés, Zaragoza, and finally Almería, the club that would eventually carry him back to La Liga after nearly a decade away. The two remained friends throughout, part of the same group from their neighborhood, seeing each other when Muniain returned to Pamplona or during holidays, maintaining the bond that had formed when they were barely old enough to tie their own boots.
On Friday, September 30th, 2022, they would face each other for the first time as professional rivals in La Liga. The match would be played at San Mamés, Athletic's stadium, the place where Eguaras had only ever played once before, wearing a different shirt. Both men had spoken by phone during the week leading up to the fixture. Muniain, playing as a midfielder for Athletic, joked with Eguaras, now a midfielder for Almería: "Don't get confused and pass it to me." It was the kind of banter that only comes from decades of knowing someone completely.
For Eguaras, the match carried weight beyond the usual rivalry. "It's special to return where I grew up as a player," he said. He had spent formative years at Lezama, Athletic's training complex, and would now walk back into that stadium as an opponent. He would see people he hadn't faced in years, would stand on the same pitch where he'd trained as a teenager, would compete against the friend he'd grown up with. His family would be there. The friends from Txantrea, the same group that had remained constant through everything, would be watching. "When Iker goes to Pamplona, or during vacations, we usually spend days together," Eguaras explained. "Off the field we're part of the same friend group and we see each other whenever we can."
There was one regret that lingered. Eguaras had always wished he could have played alongside Muniain at Athletic, could have made the jump to the first team the way his childhood friend had done. "It's the thorn I have stuck in my side," he admitted. "After spending three years in the reserve team, I was left with the feeling that something was missing for me not to be given the opportunity in the first team." But he harbored no doubt about Muniain's trajectory. "I knew he would get where he has gotten, because the conditions he had were different from the rest." Eguaras had watched from a distance as his friend became a fixture of Athletic's midfield, accumulating the kind of statistics that come from consistency and talent.
But Eguaras also carried the memory of Iñaki Gallastegi with him, a weight that never fully lifted. "It was very difficult because I was at school all day and at training with him, and it was hard because I didn't have my family nearby to help me," he reflected. "The people at the residence helped us a lot. It was hard to go back to class and see that he wasn't there. It's a learning experience. It makes you mature and see life differently because he didn't have the luck to achieve his goals, and here we are also to do what he couldn't." That Friday at San Mamés, Eguaras would play not just for himself or for Almería, but carrying forward the dreams of someone who never got the chance to chase his own.
Notable Quotes
It was a mixture of joy and sadness when we found out we were going to Athletic— Iñigo Eguaras
I knew he would get where he has gotten, because the conditions he had were different from the rest— Iñigo Eguaras, on Iker Muniain's career
The Hearth Conversation Another angle on the story
What does it feel like to walk back into a place where you trained as a teenager, but this time as an opponent?
It's strange. San Mamés is where I grew up as a player. Every time I went there before, my hair would stand on end. Now I'm going back to compete against the people I trained with, the people I know. It's special in a way that's hard to explain.
You and Muniain have been friends since you were four years old. Does that change how you approach playing against him?
Of course. We spoke on the phone before the match, joking around. But when you've known someone your entire life, when you grew up together in the same neighborhood, went to the academy together, shared a dormitory—it's different. He's my friend first. The match is secondary to that.
You spent nine seasons in the second division while he became a fixture in Athletic's first team. Did you ever resent that?
No, I never doubted he would make it. His abilities were different from the rest of us. But I do have a thorn stuck in my side about my own path. I spent three years in the reserve team and never got my chance. I wonder sometimes what would have happened if I had.
You mentioned that Iñaki Gallastegi, a teammate who died when you were thirteen, is part of why this match matters. How does that shape what you're doing now?
He's always with us. We were kids, we didn't understand what was happening. We were far from home, and suddenly he was gone. It made us grow up. Now, when I play, I'm also playing for him—for the dreams he didn't get to chase.
Your families will be in the stands. Your neighborhood friends will be watching. Does that add pressure?
No, it adds meaning. These are the people who've known me my whole life. They saw me leave at twelve years old. They watched everything that happened after. To come back and play in front of them, especially against Iker, it's what makes this special.