She accepts the misunderstanding but refuses the apology
Within the fractious corridors of Victorian politics, a disputed touch at a community gathering has become the fulcrum upon which a political career now balances. Moira Deeming, a Liberal MP whose preselection once secured her a near-certain path to parliament, faces removal not because police found wrongdoing on her part, but because she will not offer the words her party demands. The episode reveals how, in institutional life, the refusal to apologise can carry greater consequence than the original grievance itself.
- A hand on the back at a crowded Macedonian community event in Sunshine became, in Deeming's telling, a headlock — a characterisation police CCTV footage flatly contradicted, leaving her complaint dismissed and her credibility exposed.
- Matthew Guy responded with public emotion and the threat of defamation action, transforming a private grievance into a party-wide crisis that neither side can quietly walk back.
- Liberal leadership drew a hard line: an unqualified apology or consequences — and when Deeming refused, colleagues who had once stood with her began publicly distancing themselves, leaving her isolated within her own caucus.
- Deeming's lawyer released a statement conceding she had misread the technical meaning of 'headlock' but insisting she acted in good faith — a partial retreat that satisfied no one and hardened the party's resolve.
- The state executive is now expected to vote within days to strip her of preselection for the Western Metropolitan Region, effectively ending her path to the November election and raising urgent questions about her political future.
The Victorian Liberal Party is moving to remove Moira Deeming as its candidate for the November state election, a rupture that traces back to a single disputed moment at a Macedonian community event in Sunshine last month. Deeming alleged that fellow MP Matthew Guy placed her in a headlock. She escalated the complaint first to Opposition Leader Jess Wilson's office, then to Victoria Police.
When police reviewed CCTV footage, they found no evidence to support her account — the recording showed Guy's hand on her back in a crowded room. The complaint was dismissed. Guy responded with an emotional public statement, demanded an apology, and flagged defamation action. Party leadership made its position plain: an unqualified apology was required. Deeming refused.
Through her lawyer, Deeming later conceded she had misunderstood the technical definition of a headlock, but maintained she had acted in good faith and described the party's response as 'pack bullying.' The concession was not enough. Opposition business leader James Newbury confirmed he had not spoken with her in weeks, and a planned meeting with Wilson was cancelled after her refusal to apologise.
Several MPs who had previously aligned with Deeming have since said they no longer want her in the parliamentary team. The state executive is now expected to vote within three to five days on revoking her preselection for the Western Metropolitan Region — a seat that would have been hers to lose. Her political future now rests on decisions being made in the coming days.
The Victorian Liberal Party is moving to remove Moira Deeming as its candidate for the November state election, a decision that hinges on her refusal to apologize to fellow MP Matthew Guy over a physical encounter that has fractured the party's unity.
The dispute began last month at a Macedonian community event in Sunshine, where Deeming alleged that Guy placed her in a headlock. She reported the complaint first to Opposition Leader Jess Wilson's office, then to Victoria Police. When police reviewed CCTV footage of the interaction on Thursday, they found no evidence supporting her account—the footage showed Guy's hand on her back in a crowded venue. The complaint was dismissed.
Guy responded with an emotional public statement demanding an apology and signaling his intention to pursue defamation action. Party leadership, through opposition business leader James Newbury, made clear what was required: an unqualified apology from Deeming. She refused. "A request was made for her to make an unqualified apology. She has refused to do that. Further action, therefore, needs to occur, and the party is working on that now," Newbury said on Tuesday.
Deeming's position has become untenable within her own caucus. Several MPs, including some who had previously aligned with her, have stated they no longer want her in the parliamentary team. A scheduled meeting between Deeming and Wilson was cancelled after her refusal to apologize. The state executive is now expected to vote within three to five days on revoking her preselection for the Western Metropolitan Region—a position that effectively guarantees election to the lower house.
In a statement released through her lawyer on Monday, Deeming conceded that she had misunderstood the technical definition of a headlock but maintained she made the complaint in good faith. She has characterized the party's response as "pack bullying" and attributed her interpretation of the interaction to trauma. Newbury indicated he had not spoken to Deeming for weeks or possibly months. The party's machinery is now set to move against her, and the question of whether she will retain her seat—and her political future—rests on decisions to be made in the coming days.
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A request was made for her to make an unqualified apology. She has refused to do that. Further action, therefore, needs to occur.— James Newbury, opposition business leader
She accepts that she misunderstood the technical meaning of the term 'headlock' but maintains that she used it in good faith to describe what happened.— Moira Deeming, via her lawyer
A Conversa do Hearth Outra perspectiva sobre a história
Why does the party care so much about an apology if the police already cleared Guy?
Because in a caucus, trust is everything. Once that breaks, you're isolated. The apology isn't really about the headlock—it's about whether she'll accept the party's version of reality.
But she says she made the complaint in good faith. Doesn't that count for something?
It might, in another context. But she's also refusing to back down even after police reviewed the footage. From the party's view, that looks like she's choosing principle over unity.
What does "pack bullying" mean in this situation?
She's saying the party is ganging up on her—that multiple MPs are turning against her at once, that the leadership is coordinating to push her out. Whether that's accurate or just how it feels to her is part of the tension.
Is there any way she survives this?
Only if she apologizes. That's the single condition. But she's made it clear she won't, even though she's admitted she was wrong about what a headlock is. It's a standoff.
What happens if they vote to remove her?
She loses her preselection. The seat goes to someone else. She could run as an independent, but she'd be running against the Liberal Party machine in a region they control. It's essentially over.