Drowning is silent. There's no splashing, no calling for help.
Each Memorial Day, the unofficial start of summer draws families toward water with joy and anticipation — yet beneath that seasonal ritual lies a quiet and preventable danger. Drowning remains the leading cause of accidental death for children ages one to four, with the vast majority of incidents concentrated in the summer months ahead. Experts at programs like Goldfish Swim School in Richmond remind us that preparation, not fear, is what stands between a child and catastrophe — and that the window to act is open right now.
- The season's arrival carries a hidden toll: drowning kills more young children than car crashes, falls, or fire, and 70% of those deaths happen in the summer months just beginning.
- Children approach water without fear, slipping away from groups in seconds — and drowning is often silent, leaving no splash, no cry, no warning.
- Swim lessons offer a near-transformative shield, cutting drowning risk by 88% by teaching children to float, control their breath, and pull themselves to safety.
- Experts urge families to act before the first swim: enroll children in lessons now, equip them with Coast Guard-approved life jackets, and post a dedicated adult watcher at every water outing.
- The message from water safety professionals is urgent but hopeful — the difference between a safe summer and a tragedy is almost always preparation made in advance.
Memorial Day marks the moment American families turn toward water — pools, lakes, beaches, and water parks — and with that seasonal shift comes a risk that experts say too many parents underestimate. Drowning is the single leading cause of accidental death for children ages one to four, surpassing car crashes and falls, with roughly seven in ten of those deaths occurring between June and August.
At Goldfish Swim School in Richmond, Shannon Parvis has spent years teaching infants and toddlers the skills that can save their lives. Lessons begin early — sometimes before children can fully walk — covering how to float on their backs, hold their breath, and pull themselves out of the water. The impact of that training is measurable: swim lessons reduce drowning risk by 88 percent, a margin that represents not just statistics but lives.
Parvis is quick to note that lessons alone aren't enough. Young children are naturally drawn to water, seeing only play and adventure where adults might see hazard. They can slip away from a group in moments, misjudge depth, or panic in ways that keep them silent. That silence is part of what makes drowning so devastating — there is often no splashing, no cry for help, just a child who goes under and doesn't return.
The safeguards Parvis recommends are straightforward: follow posted safety rules at any water venue, use only Coast Guard-approved flotation devices rather than pool toys, and assign one adult the sole responsibility of watching children in the water — no phones, no side conversations. The weeks before summer, she says, are exactly the right time to have these conversations, enroll children in lessons, and make a plan. The season is arriving. Preparation is what makes it safe.
Memorial Day weekend arrives this year as it always does—the unofficial opening bell for summer, the moment when families dust off their beach bags and pool passes and head toward the water. What experts want you to know, as you make those plans, is that this seasonal shift brings a spike in child drowning, and there are concrete steps that can cut that risk dramatically.
At Goldfish Swim School in Richmond, Shannon Parvis runs a program built entirely around preventing the thing that kills more children ages one to four than any other accident. The statistics are stark: drowning claims more young lives than car crashes, falls, or fire. And the timing is brutal—roughly seven out of every ten of those deaths happen between June and August, the exact months when kids are most likely to be near water.
Parvis has spent years teaching infants and toddlers the skills that can save their lives. The lessons start early, sometimes when children are barely walking. Instructors teach them to float on their backs, to hold their breath, to understand what water feels like in their nose and mouth. They practice pulling themselves out of the water if they fall in. The evidence for what works is clear: swim lessons reduce the risk of drowning by 88 percent. That's not a marginal improvement. That's the difference between a child who knows what to do and one who doesn't.
But lessons are only part of the picture. Parvis emphasizes that children are naturally drawn to water—they don't fear it the way adults do. They see a pool or a lake and think only of play, of fun, of adventure. That curiosity is healthy, but it's also dangerous. A child can slip away from a group in seconds. A child can misjudge depth or distance. A child can panic in ways that silence them.
This is why Parvis stresses the non-negotiable rules: if your family is heading to a pool, water park, lake, or ocean this summer, read the posted safety signs and follow them. Make sure any flotation device your child wears is approved by the United States Coast Guard—not a pool toy, not an inflatable ring, but actual safety equipment. And perhaps most importantly, designate one adult whose only job, while the kids are in the water, is to watch them. Not to chat with other parents. Not to scroll a phone. To watch.
Prevention, Parvis says, is the key. It sounds simple because it is. The drowning that kills a child is often silent and fast. There's no splashing, no calling for help. There's just a moment when a child goes under and doesn't come back up. That's why the weeks before summer—right now—are the time to enroll a child in swim lessons if you haven't already, to talk through water safety rules, to decide who will be watching and when. The season is coming. The water is waiting. The difference between a safe summer and a tragedy is often just preparation.
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Children are very curious, especially in bodies of water. Often they don't fear the water, so they think it's a fun, exciting activity, so sometimes they're a little bit too curious, and they go a little bit too far, and accidents do happen, so prevention is key.— Shannon Parvis, General Manager of Goldfish Swim School in Richmond
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Why does drowning spike so dramatically in summer? Is it just that more kids are in the water?
Partly, yes—more exposure. But there's something else. Summer is when kids are around water in less controlled settings. A lake instead of a pool. A beach instead a lesson. And parents sometimes relax their guard because it feels like vacation.
You mentioned that 88% reduction from swim lessons. That's a huge number. What exactly are kids learning that makes such a difference?
The fundamentals. How to float when they panic. How to hold their breath. How to orient themselves in water. But also—and this matters—they're learning that water is real. It's not a toy. That respect, that understanding, changes behavior.
The article mentions a designated watcher. Why is that so critical?
Because drowning is silent. There's no splashing, no yelling. A child can slip under in the time it takes an adult to look away. One person, watching only that, changes everything.
Do you think parents understand how fast it can happen?
I don't think most do. They think drowning looks like the movies—thrashing, noise. The reality is quieter and more terrifying. That's why prevention feels so urgent right now, before the season starts.
What would you tell a parent who thinks swim lessons are expensive or unnecessary?
That an 88% reduction in risk isn't theoretical. It's the difference between a child who knows what to do and one who doesn't. And that difference can be everything.